"Modern Family" and Girl Scouts

This week sure has been a roller coaster ride for me.  Lots of changes at work.  I usually always need a day or two to process change before I am able to accept it and move forward.  I need time to be angry, sad, cranky, etc.  But as soon as I have my time to digest and think about what is happening (and put it in perspective), I am A-okay!  The changes are good, and neccessary.  The agency is growing by leaps and bounds.  And I'd rather welcome this kind of change, instead of the change that requires people losing their jobs altogether.  So I'm a happy girl, staying positive!  I'm really looking forward to the changes, and making them my own.  Shout out to Andrew Hall, Aubree, Bobby, Cassie Morgan, Charity, Devin, Jenn, Jason, Joe, Lance H., Leslee, Marcie, my sisters Mckenzie and Meredith, Sarah, Staci, Steph P., and Trisha for your prayers this week...I have truly felt them and am so thankful to you all :)  Thanks also to Jessica and Lucretia for checking on me :)

I got my Girl Scout cookies this morning.  I got 3 boxes...Tagalongs, Do-Si-Dos and Thin Mints.  I've already decided that I'm going to be putting a sticky note on all 3 boxes that says, "Meghan, you are only allowed to eat 2 per day."  I hope this helps my self-discipline.

Miss Cassie Morris arrives to Nashville tonight to visit me for the weekend.  I'm super stoked!  I haven't seen her in over 2 months!  Massages + pedicures + getting our hair done = spa day :)  It's going to be so great to catch up with her!!!!

I just have to take a moment to acknowledge one of the funniest shows on tv.  "Modern Family."  It just lights up my life.  If you've never taken the time to watch it, please do so.  It's not one of those shows that has a plot where you can't just jump in and start watching.  You can pick it up whenever.  And reader, you're "whenever" is NOW!!!!  Well, I guess next Wednesday.  It airs on NBC @ 8pm CST.  I watch it alone every week because neither one of my roommates watches it.  This past week was so funny, I was lol-ing.  I NEVER lol when I'm by myself.  That would be weird, and pathetic, and...weird.  Anyways, I found myself lol-ing at least 5 different times within the 30 min that the show lasts.  In fact, I saved it on my DVR and watched it twice the next day, and then a third when I invited Cassie Morgan over to watch it because it was just that funny.  I'm telling you readers...it's life-changing.  More funny than "The Office."  That's right.  I said it. 

I'm wanting to start leaving recipes on here that I like.  And I'm going to start with an omelet.  I never knew how to make one until my mom came to visit me a week ago and showed me how (after she rolled her eyes in disbelief). 

Donni'e Homemade Omelet
1 TSP of butter
4 eggs
1/3 cup of milk
1/3 shredded chedder cheese
1/2 an orange peper
1/4 onion
1 handful of fresh cilantro

Melt butter in skillet over medium heat.  Chop up pepper and onion into small pieces (not diced).  Add to skillet and cook until soft and slightly golden brown, stirring just once every 1-2 minutes.  While veggies are cooking (and carmelizing, as Mom would say), beat eggs and then beat in milk.  Once veggies are cooked, pour egg/milk mixture over veggies in skillet.  Using a spatula to hold back eggs, begin to tilt skillet to allow  soupy egg to cover entire skillet.  Do this until the egg doesn't run anymore.  It should still be slightly soupy in the middle.  Add cheese and cilantro to one half of the omelet.  When egg is cooked, flip half of the omelet over the other half.  Continue to cook if desired.  Place on plate and enjoy!  (This recipe is meant to feed 2 people.  If only cooking for one, you only need 2 eggs).  Thanks again, Mom!!!!

Omelets, Pedicures and Massages: The Makings of Greatness

Disclaimer:  I haven't written in a while so this is gonna be long...

I got to spend this past weekend with my mom.  It was very refreshing to have her here.  Friday night we just hung out and visited.  We got a dish of soft serve at Menchie's (for those of you who don't know what that is, it's a frozen yogurt place with 14 flavors and all the toppings in the world you could ever want).  Saturday, we spent some time at the Frist, since it was the last day it was free to get in.  There were only 2-3 exhibits; they were interesting but nothing we were too curious about.  Then we headed up to Madison to Old Time Pottery, which my mom had never been to.  She bought some couch coushions for the rocking chairs at the North Carolina house.  Then we went to get a pedicure at Illusions (hands down, the BEST pedicure I've ever had) and lunch at Zoe's Kitchen in Green Hills.  We also played a quick game of Smart Ass with Jenn; it was not surprising that Mom won that game :)  It was off to BB King's later that night to celebrate Jenn's birthday.  I had never been there, and Mom came with.  We had so much fun!  The music was great (David Lund, you would LOVE this place!) and the food was good.  Sunday, we went to Oasis and Harpeth Hills for church.  We met up with an old family friend who we had known while living in Connecticut.  It was great to see Maria :)  Mom taught me and Jenn how to make a good homemade omelet for lunch.  We put orange pepper, onion, cheese, cilantro and black pepper in it and boy was it DIVINE!!!  Then we went to see the new Liam Neeson movie, "Unknown."  It was really, really good...I would highly recommend seeing it. 

What do you guys think about the name Arristyn for a girl??? Traver or Trayor for a boy???

So Lent is coming up.  I was racking my brain today, and I don't think I've ever participated in it.  I'm interested in giving something up this year, but I'm not sure what.  Any ideas???

I finally found almonds that I like.  I've never been a fan of almonds...I prefer peanuts if I have to eat nuts.  My mom introduced me to almonds that are covered in cinnamon, and I like them.  They are definitely an acquired taste...

It's Girl Scout cookies time and I WANT SOME!!!!!  My favorites are Thin Mints, Do-Si-Do's, and Tagalongs :)

Today was rough.  I found out some news that is very discouraging.  My immediate thought was "I deserve better."  But there's nothing I can do, it's out of my control.  So why complain about it?  I focused on the fact that it could have been worse.  And then I was thinking about how this might be a reason to move onto something bigger and better.  As Cassie said, "God is big."

My fitness journey is going very well.  I'm running/doing calisthenics 6 days a week. I've never slept better, been happier overall, and just felt lighter!  I've stopped eating fast food, processed food.  I've cut back on sweets, and introduced fresh veggies and fruits into my diet every day.  Thanks again Steph for being awesome :)

Couple things I'm looking forward to this week:  spending tonight with my lady friends watching "The Bachelor" and Cassie Morris coming into town to visit me this coming weekend...yay for massages!!!!

Have a great week readers.

Day 30: Your highs and lows of this month

Highs --> beginning my fitness journey with Steph at my side, finding out my friend Devin was pregnant, spending every Monday night with Jenn, Steph, Andrea and Cassie watching "The Bachelor."

Lows --> not having a Valentine...again, getting a shattered windshield while driving on the highway, finding out that my friend Carrie was moving to Houston.

I thought of another name that I like for a little girl.  Sawyer Grace.  Or maybe Sawyer Elle.  Or Sawyer Ellie.  I dunno, I just like the name Sawyer for a girl.

Just finished watching "The Bachelor" with Jenn (because no one else showed up...I guess because of Valentine's Day or some crap).  Anyways, it was good.  Drama-filled.  My favorite part was prolly on commercials when Jenn would whisper-sing "...and everybody's hands go up...and they stay there, and they stay there, up down, up down, up down...'cuz all I do is win..."  Or maybe it was all the times Jenn said, "Uuuuuhhhhhhh" real loud.  Next week are hometown dates with Emily, Ashley, Chawntel and Shantel.  Thank goodness Michelle got sent home :)  So Brad was talking with Emily about how she felt about him meeting her daughter Ricky.  She was really hesitant.  All I have to say is Ricky...you better not eff this up for Brad and Emily, or I'm going to have to eff you up.  Kapeesh, chach?...

Today was day 4 of my new plan to get fit.  I've been working out straight for 1 week today, and I feel great!  I'm sleeping better, I have more energy, I'm happier and my clothes are beginning to fit looser :)  My personal trainer Steph started me on this 2-week Phase 1 plan to get me going.  This past Friday was day 1 and I finished day 4 tonight.  My workouts are so great!  I little cardio and some awesome calisthenics.  I'm actually surprised at how quickly my stamina from high school and college is returning to me.  Our bodies are truly a work of art.  God's design is too cool!  I'm looking forward to this being a lifestyle change, and I am dedicated to it becoming that.  This isn't a fad.  This is the new me :)

I'm so glad Valentine's Day is over :)

Well, I'm done with the 30 Day Challenge. Go me.

Day 29: Goals for the next 30 days

I want to continue to improve my fitness with the help of my trainer, Steph.  She's so great and encouraging.  I want to lose 5 pounds.  I want to bond with my new team at work.  I want to spend some quality time with friends. 

So, I cannot wait for April 1-3.  I'm going to Louisville, KY to meet 3 of my dearest friends from Spring Hill Camps.  It's pretty much a 2004 mini reunion.  I'm meeting Cassie, Sarah and Aubree there for a marvelous weekend!  I can't wait!  We don't have any official plans set in place yet, but it's gonna be great!  I'd be ok with just sitting in the hotel room with them the entire weekend, walking down memory lane, catching up on life, laughing.  I'm so excited :)

The Grammys were tonight.  They were alright.  My favorite performances were Muse, Bruno Mars, Mumford and Sons, Justin Beiber/Usher/Jaydon Smith, and John Mayer/Keith Urban/Norah Jones.  I was glad that Miranda Lambert and Lady Antebellum won some good awards.  It's always interesting how Lady Gaga continues to one-up herself.  She's definitely not my cup of tea.  It was nice spending time with Steph though.  We always have so much fun together :)  We decided that we wanted to learn that dance the Usher and Justin Bieber did tonight.  We'll see how that goes, maybe when we have it down pat we will post it on youtube ;)...

Steph shared a cool quote with me tonight.  I'm not sure I will get it exactly right..."If there was more courting before marriage, there would be fewer marriages that end in court."  She saw it on a church billboard.  I like it.

Day 28: Something you miss

I miss my childhood sometimes.  I miss the simplicity of being young.  No responsibilities other than eating, sleeping, obeying Mom and Dad.  It's funny how when you're young, you want to be older.  And vice versa.  I miss high school, too.  I went to school to spend 8 hours with my friends.  Then I came home, ate a snack did some homework and then went to bed.  What a life :)  I also miss family dinners.  My roommates and I have such off schedules that we never really sit down at the table and eat together.  I think I took family dinners for granted when I was younger. 

Do you think there is love out there like Ross and Rachel's love?  From "Friends."  I'm watching an episode right now.  It's the one where Ross goes to China and while he's gone, Rachel realizes that she wants to be with him.  But then he comes back with a girlfriend, Julie.  I love they way Ross loves Rachel, and loved her for all those years.  From afar.  I love the way Ross looks at Rachel, how he kisses her.  It's just so precious!  It gives me hope that there is still love like that out there :)

And now I'm watching the news, and Metro Nashville schools are closed again tomorrow.  Ugh, I'm so sick of snow!  I usually love it!  But when it interferes with doing my job, it gets old fast.  Hopefully this is the last run-in we will have with snow this winter...

Well I'm off to make dinner for Cassie and I.  Salmon, asparagus and brown rice.  Yummm :)  Then it's time for "The Vampire Diaries", "The Office", "American Idol" and "Grey's Anatomy." 

Day 27: A problem you have had

I have had this problem (and still kind of do) for my entire life.  Let's start at the beginning.  I grew up in a very close family.  I've known nothing but love and support.  My mom and dad have modeled a healthy marriage for me.  So there shouldn't be any problem with me letting a man love me, right?  There shouldn't be any problem with me letting a man in, right?  So why is there?

I'm scared of relationships, and I can tell you why.  I'm scared because I don't know what to do.  I'm scared because I'm ignorant, and I haven't had a lot of dating/relationship experience.  I've been asked out before, and I've had guys tell me that they like me and want to date me.  But I always managed to come up with a reason not to, even if I liked the guy.  And that reason was fear of not knowing what to do.  It's never been about fear of a broken heart, trusting, or cheating or anything like that.  It's always been about ignorance.  And I know in my head that the only way to get rid of that fear, is to do the thing that intimates me...dating (an ominous "bum, bum, buuuuuuummm").  I want to learn how to love and be loved.  I want to feel comfortable in the dating/relationship arena.  I'll get there, I will get there.  It's just taking me longer than most people.

So Nashville is getting yet another round of snow today/tonight.  I don't know how much more this city can take.  I made sure to leave work before it started snowing so that I wouldn't be stuck in traffic.  So I got home and turned on the news.  According to News Channel 4 WSMV, there were 65 wrecks in the metro area lone (that's both back roads and the 3 major highways).  They showed footage of the interstates and they were all parking lots.  Literally.  It's 6:45pm right now, which means it's been falling for a little over 3 hours.  It's still snowing.  So there's no school tomorrow...again.  It's so interesting how this city completely shuts down at just a few inches of snow.  I'm glad I have my bread and milk for this white out...

"America's Funniest Home Videos."  Does anyone other than me still watch that?  It still makes me laugh so hard! 

I was driving to a home visit this afternoon.  I was on the highway, getting ready to get off my exit.  I was in the middle lane, slightly behind a white SUV in the right lane.  I saw the car hit something that looked like a chunk of solid wood (like one of those door stop things).  It flies up (kinda in slow motion) and lands directly on my front windshield.  Right in front of my face, the bottom left corner of the window.  It hit the window and bounced off and left what looks like a giant spider with long legs.  Naturally, I panicked and called my dad.  He told me it was no big deal and to call my most wonderful, glorious, helpful insurance agent Sherri.  So I call Sherri, and she says the same thing my pops said..."No big deal."  She tells me that I don't have a deductible (score!).  She Sherri gets my info to Shawn who works for Auto Glass something -er-other.  Within 15 minutes, Shawn calls me and schedules a day and time he can come out to fix my windshield.  It's all going to be ok :)

Day 26: What kind of person attracts you

Someone who puts others first.  Someone who pursues me.  Someone who communicates well.  Someone who likes to spend time with me, despite all my quirks.  Someone who works really hard to surprise me (I'm really hard to surprise).  Someone who isn't afraid to take me out of my comfort zone.  Someone who is patient.  Someone who is a "man's man", whatever that is exactly.  Someone who isn't clingy, who has his own friends and his own life and his own routine.  Someone who doesn't need my opinion on every little thing, but who can make his own choices.  Someone who recognizes that life isn't easy, but who still wants to go on the ride with me.  Someone who pushes me to crave more of Jesus.  That's the man I am attracted to.*

 There is a third and final Cassie in my life.  Yes, I know 3 Cassies.  I met this particular Cassie at IWU.  She was in my cluster group (a small group of about 5-7 girls on my floor in the dorm).  I lead this small group in Bible studies, fellowship, prayer, etc.  Cassie was in mine my sophomore year, her freshman year.  She had such a bubbly spirit and was just super fun to be around.  We both loved dogs and were from IL, so we clicked immediately on those levels.  We were almost inseparable.  I remember getting all dolled up for the Christmas party or just because, and having a photo shoot.  I remember one in particular in the dead of winter.  We got dressed in high heeled boots and cute sweaters and hats, and then went all around campus taking pictures of ourselves.  We did it in the summer too, if we found a cute park or something.  Those were so fun!  Cassie and I also served on leadership together in that same dorm.  Cassie was the ARD and I was the desk manager.  Then we got our first house off campus...Wigger St.  The little blue house.  Cassie, do you remember the house number?  She brought Izzy to live with us.  And then I got Sampson, but he didn't last :(  One of my fondest memories is how often I borrowed Cassie's clothes in college!  I always thought hers were cooler than mine ;)  Cassie is fun, sweet, comforting, tell-it-how-it-is, encouraging, funny, loving.  I miss her every day, and it sucks that like every 2-3 years, she moves farther and farther away from me.  LOVE YOU CASS-A-FRASS!!!!!!!!

*Notice there is nothing about physical characteristics.